Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 3mo ago in Single Woman Tears - Permalink - Locked - 5.5K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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No-Stress-Cat 3mo ago
At 63, she probably has so much man DNA floating around in her it rewrote her genetic code.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
I’m sure this woman has been an absolute joy to be around for her entire life. She’s the aunt that the kids only see on Christmas, and mom or dad gets to explain why she always seems so ornery.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3mo ago
Yeah, she's not a free prostitute; she's not free! Though, at 63, she's probably OK being paid in mothballs.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Well then maybe she should have tried to make it worth the price she wanted to charge!
Same problem so many other women have. The only thing of (positive) value to a man that (who they are willing to consider an option) they are offering is sex, so that's the price point they get offered in return. And in a market flooded with dumb hos, that price point isn't going to be very high.
So they can either lower their sights to mere mortal men who are willing to offer more instead of spreading their legs for Chadeus, god of Thundercock - or they can offer enough value other than just sex so that they are no longer a replaceable cumdump for Chad.
Or they can do neither and get the worst of both like most women keep trying to do.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
No, men want symmetric sexual pleasure
at least we dont want free money :)
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Interesting insight here. What she is actually doing is defining any woman who has sex for fun with men she barely knows as a prostitute.
No such a woman is not prostitute. In fact the woman who wouldn't go on the coffee date as it was "cheap" is more like the prostitute -she wanted free money spent on her.
What she is actually talking about is a slut. She didn't want to be a slut, which is good -some women do know it degrades them inside, whatever liberal education tells them- but it is interesting that she couldn't quite separate sex and money. A lot of women have that issue...
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Her terminology is amusing because it implies what many men learn: Nearly all women insist upon some type of exchange for sex while shaming women who are honest and up front about it and make it a direct cash exchange.
Some women shame each other as sluts even when there is no non-marital sex involved and the courtship does NOT involve prostitution including quid-pro-quo: they'd say a woman who asked out a nice guy (not particularly handsome), paid for a coffee date, they just "hung out", and then got married and then had sex was a "slut".
In other words, all women (by such women's standards) are "sluts" (if they sleep with men without getting paid) but if a woman sleeps with hundreds of men for free, but the men are all hot or celebrities, she's not.a "slut" either because she is discerning.
Modern women have normalized prostitution but yet also renamed it to be something else that they fail to see the Orwellian doublespeak humor in a term such as "free prostitution".
ElliotPagesLeftTit 3mo ago
I’m 62. I dated two women in college. I married the second. We had four kids and a 32 year relationship. That was the experience of most of the men in my close circle of friends. Senior year and the following year were a round of weddings, and all the marriages made it at least 20 years.
After our divorce, one thing I wasn’t looking for was someone who hadn’t made a relationship work in the last 30 years.
The thing OP’s poor experience had in common was her.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Well, if she does not want to be a FREE prostitute, she had better lead with a price. Then we can call her a professional prostitute and be done with her issue.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago
Or maybe-- just spitballing here-- maybe she could've not had a price tag which was known only to herself? It would've been a lot easier on her, mentally.
Believe me, it wasn't the men who were insisting on giving her cash for her time.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Remember: most women are perfectly happy with the concept of prostitution as long as (1) it's not called out as prostitution, and (2) it is not legalized (free market). But they are perfectly happy with exchanging sex "favors" for "something of value". See what I did there? I gave it enough vague language that she can, "yeah I sucked dick for dollars, but it's not prostitution!"
Furthermore, society - via the Overton window - is OK with it too, i.e., Monica Lewinsky & Stormy Daniels.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago
In the Rolling Stone article which inspired the movie "Hustlers", wherein strippers drug rich dudes and steal their money, there was a kind of funny insistence on the part of the stripper-thieves that no prostitution had taken place.
Yes, they drugged people. Yes, they stole stuff. Yes, they ran-up their credit cards. Yes, they lied their asses off. But trade sex for money??! Perish the thought! What do you think they are??! Hookers?!
It's like that one old lady said in "Arsenic and Old Lace": "There are only seven bodies we buried in the basement, Mortimer! I wouldn't stoop to telling a fib!"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
This is just fantastic.
The women are railing against 'free prostitutes'. Why? Because its' ruining their trade.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
My brother got married soon after I turned 21 so we went out to a strip club for his bachelor party and I was curious what it was like and I found it depressing. A bunch of lonely guys sitting around getting grifted by women with fake smiles and the DJ loudly nagging you every 5 minutes or to so "tip the dancers". I simply found them awful to be around but it was entertaining for the time I was there.
I later went to a brothel and it blew my mind. It's like being a kid in a candy store or going to the status lounges at airports. I felt like a million bucks and although some of the professionals were rather cold, the majority were the best times I ever had with a woman. I felt for a moment what it was like to be a chad in that I didn't have to "perform" to be around them. I had a conversations with them having just had sex.
This woman's indirect way of admitting she's a (paid) prostitute is something I figured out a while ago about the dinner-date game: It's like paying for a prostitute up front and then you have to perform tricks for them and if you fail, or if they simply are toying with you, you lose your money. Like paying a doorman at some club a tip to get in and he doesn't let you in anyway for... "because".
My wife is aware I went for these services before I met her and I think while she officially disapproves, much like how women officially disapprove of high body counts in men, I think it's the most powerful way to make a statement: "I can get sex WHENEVER I want and I'm not ashamed of it."
Note that professionals don't have to sleep with ANYONE just as when I worked minimum wage 40 years ago, I didn't take just any job. Although I didn’t put this to the test, IMO, brothel prostitutes appeared, on average, to be better adjusted than most meal whores and chad chasers.
There’s still this stigma around cash prostitutes when every other form of prostitution has been normalized and even socially required. Women are ashamed with their friends if they are NOT perceived as gold diggers. Bi-sexuality and homosexuality is common. I have a lot of fun dropping this bomb on the typical inclusive fuddy-duddy and watching them stutter.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago
"Free prostitute." Interesting way of putting it.
Was it that they offered her money and she refused it? No? Huh. Did she charge them and they refused to pay? No? Huh.
Maybe she should've given her prices up front, then.