Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Land_of_the_losers
Posted 3d ago in Complaining about jerks - Permalink - 629 Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1d ago
She certainly is not nurturing her kids. And just to be sure, when I looked up the definition of "nurture," the first definition I found was "The action of raising or caring for offspring." So I will not let it slide with giving her the benefit of the doubt that she means doing so for her man, because there is far too much inconsistency in this profile for an honest mistake. It is just all over the place.
This reminds me of the fact that no one should be seeking any sort of relationship if their own house is not in order. You cannot be thinking that you are ready for meeting someone else when you are not mentally sound, because you are either going to (righfully) repel anyone who has their house in order or will end up in a bad relationship one way or another. I don't know how reliable this woman is about her "traumatic relationship," but no matter the context she is not in the right place to be seeking another relationship.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
She is a 'nurturer' but her kids live away from home.
Got it.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Oh she'll consider men up to aged 68? What is wrong with the 69 year old dudes? That is so AGEIST!!!
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
Did she lose custody in the divorce, or did she dump her kids with her parents?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3d ago
Yes.
Or, third option: Dropped off in a basket outside a stranger's doorstep.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Didn't think that happened very much anymore, but if Trump changes policies that make it harder for single mothers to collect various government benefits, I can see more single mothers dropping off their babies and young children in the near future when having kids doesn't allow them to gain Section 8 housing or other government services anymore.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
Or fourth option -they were taken into state care as she is dysfunctional and unfit as a mother.
These types usually cite abuse without realising that they are the abusive one and the fact they had screaming rows with their man is just the symptom of their abusiveness not the abuse. Any sane man would shout if you were out at erratic hours with god knows who, had messages from admirers, got drunk, went awol and radio silent, forgot to feed the kids, spent his money on impulse and then flipped out on him when he confronted you about these things. Eventually even Duluth obsessed social services will figure it out and take the kids away unless the actual father is on the scene to have them and he may have long ago run for the hills.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3d ago
Well, in her defense, she didn't say who was responsible. Non-specificity does have its strategic value. I mean, look at the "One China policy." There's no way to know who was the illegitimate China in that case.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
There is only Taiwan and
WestWorst Taiwan!Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
I'm guessing she was too lazy to write her own profile and used ChatGPT, which isn't too good on fine details like that.
Or at least her profile is generic enough dreck to give the impression it was written by a LLM.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3d ago
Honestly, with the widespread availability of artificially-generated content, I don't know what's real and false.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
Wow. How lazy can you get. And to think I airways enjoyed your commentary. I'm so disappointed in you.
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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
She has no idea what she wants but please don't waste her time. Fair enough. Next.
StrongWoman 3d ago
Something about this is...off. She is probably just an alien parasite looking for a host or something, idk.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3d ago
I think the "have children" was her misunderstanding and clicking the wrong button. Like she thought it means that she is living away from home.
The big red flag for me is the age range.... 26-68 just doesn't make sense for raising a family. "Any age" means "I want a sugar daddy" in most cases.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
I don't think this post is from Tinder but likely a sugar daddy or "seeking arrangements" app?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago
Millionaire match. OP had to prove his net worth to get access.
I doubt these gold-digging hooooh-aahhs had to prove jack shit...
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
If they don't get a paid membership, they can't send messages.
They can reply to messages, though. Which means that the message-sender needs to have a membership. So the hooh-ahhs don't need to do much, it is true. Gotta love that passivity.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2d ago
reads like it yeah
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Well she got one thing right. She is indeed a cancer, just not how she thinks she is.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
Minor quibble to a great post: This one may qualify as Damaged Goods flair. "Complaining about Jerks" is when I think they gripe that most of the men they are interested in are jerks while "damaged goods" is when they state they're broken by someone and need a man to buy a store "open box" (at full price, of course.)
Perhaps she means "undecided" to indicate that if the man doesn't want to have kids with her, she's ok with that.
Something to ponder for modern young men, my sympathies go out to them, is that the dating scene is similar to a farmer's market where you gotta get there early before all the best fruits are "groped". Many teenage girls fall into bed with the first guy that asks them out to dinner and they feel obligated to have sex and being naive don't know how to use birth control and get knocked up and being pro-life they have the kid. There are many single mothers out there who are genuine "victims" of this, and we can sympathize, but who wants to pick up someone else's mess?
When my parents met in 1958, the AVERAGE age of marriage was 21 meaning that least HALF of couples actually got formally married BEFORE then. The other half met their spouses and got married within about 3 years after that as my parents did (they met at a dance hall). They met via school, social/family networks, and church and body counts were on a single hand with some fingers cut off.
I started getting serious about dating back in the late 80's in my mid-20's and then it was tough: The girls available were usually jaded. If I had a son, I'd suggest he lock down one of the sweet virgins going to college who doesn't party like my niece.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 8h ago
The "damaged goods" flair is for victims of abuse. The woman in the OOP never alleged any abuse.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3h ago
I recall you saying that, thank you. She said she, "just got out of a traumatic relationship" where she was "lied to" and "cheated on" so that sounded "damaged to me".
By "victims of abuse", do they have to specify that they were physically or sexually assaulted?