@Desaint Thanks! It went very well.

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I'm meeting a girl tonight. Do you guys have any tips? Something I hear often is to let girls do most of the talking. Don't tell everything about yourself, keep it mysterious. Also, do you guys kiss for the first time? (I used to always kiss on the first date). Also, what is a non-creepy way to escalate sexually?

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@Lionsmane8 I agree they do. I prefer texting over calling. I was texting with this girl on Tinder yesterday got her IG and honestly IMO things were going pretty well...after I tried calling her over IG she got scared or lost interest. Oh well

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@Typo-MAGAshiv Personally I prefer texting but some people insist that it's important to hear each other, it brings more emotion and you can express more things than through text. Tnx for your reply!

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@zanjakob

Strongly recommend against calling new girls.

You need to know she's receptive to it first. It is horrible game and the guys that usually do it start calling instead of texting because they're getting rejected over text way too much

I always see the "should I call her" the biggest tell that a guy is getting tons of rejections and she probably does too

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@zanjakob I haven't played the field since 2004, but from what I've seen, read, and heard from both men and women online as well as IRL, most people see phone calls as intrusive now and would rather text most of the time

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@zanjakob

Calling girls is obviously better than texting right?

Results tend to vary, but if you're not interested in the text tag game it can be.

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Calling girls is obviously better than texting right?

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@zanjakob also, *you're

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@zanjakob it's not necessarily what you say or do, but rather how you say or do it.

Also, you calibrate based on how she's been so far.

Based only on what you said, we can't know whether that was well done or lame as hell.

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